Children and young people's wellbeing

The below free virtual PD workshops are designed to provide up-to-date guidance for school staff on supporting children and young people’s wellbeing. The workshops are 60 minutes long and are suitable for staff who support children of all ages. 

Understanding young people's Self-harm

This workshop is aimed at school staff to support them to develop an understanding of what is meant by self-harm and why it happens. It will provide information on what schools can do to help support young people who self-harm and give information and resources that may be helpful to share with young people and parents.

Tuesday 3 September 2pm

Understanding and supporting pupils who have experienced bereavement

This workshop is aimed at school staff who support young people that have experienced a bereavement. It will give guidance on what can be done in schools to support young people and provide resources that can be shared with young people and their families.

Monday 2 September 2pm
Tuesday 3 September 10am

Staff maybe interested in the up and coming NSFT parent and carer workshops which can be found on our 'Family Wellbeing' information page.

SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) and mental health go hand-in-hand when supporting children and young people's health and wellbeing.

Please see below for where to go for SEND support and information.

Important information for schools

Child and Young Person Neurodevelopmental Disorder (CYP NDD) Pathway

Suffolk and North East Essex Integrated Care Board (SNEE ICB) have made enhancements to the Children and Young People’s Neurodevelopmental Disorder (NDD) Pathway referral form process for families who require an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) diagnosis.

To download the NDD Pathway referral form and find more guidance go to the Suffolk Local Offer website.

Links to ADHD and Autism support services, can also be found on this page on the Emotional Wellbeing Gateway website

Kooth - Online emotional wellbeing support in Suffolk for 11-18 year olds

Kooth provides British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy accredited services. Kooth is a commissioned online counselling service providing a free, safe and non-judgemental place for young people to connect and share with others their worries and know that they are not alone. They have access to self-help materials, live moderated discussion forums and tools such as online journals and goal trackers via the Kooth website. Young people can also access drop-in or booked 1-2-1 chat sessions with professional Kooth counsellors from 12pm-10pm weekdays and 6pm-10pm weekends.

Kooth services are completely anonymous and a fantastic way for young people to get the help and support they need, with no long waiting times or referral process.

Kooth news updates:

Register onto any of a Kooth Talks webinars for professionals - KoothTalks for Professionals

This is a link to KoothKlass for schools to access with their students - KoothKlass for CYP

Kooth Healthcare Hub - This gives lots of information about the Kooth service with video intros and also lots of digital resources you can use to signpost young people to.

This 5 minute Parent and Carer video can be shared by school staff with their families so they can find out about Kooth and how Kooth can support their young person. Kooth also offer free parent and carer resources.

To view all available Kooth webinars go to: @KoothEngagementTeam | Linktree

Kooth school engagement lead contact - If your school would like to request Kooth to come along and talk to pupils about their service, or if you have a wellbeing event that you would like Kooth to attend, you can contact our Suffolk Kooth engagement lead,
Eloise Pilcher - Email: epilcher@kooth.com 

Recognising the collective trauma and heightened anxiety following the dreadful situation in Ukraine, we have gathered the following resources to help support children and young people.

This YouTube video 'Supporting our children in traumatic times', presented by Dr Tina Rae. Also see her blog page for more useful advice.

Useful webinars:

Talking about War and Conflict with Children - a webinar course.

Podcast: Talking to your children about the Ukraine War

In this podcast episode Dr Beth Mosley (Consultant Clinical Psychologist) both mother and mental health professional, talks with Dr Kelsey Odgers (Clinical Psychologist) and Kelly (mother of two) about how we manage our children's exposure and time spent on news stories? And, how do we turn feelings into helpful actions. Listen to 'Talking to children about Ukraine War' Podcast 
Listen to our free Mental Health and You podcast series Or search for ‘Mental Health and You’ on Apple Podcasts.

Ukrainian refugee resources for settings:

Ukraine Refugees Support Plan

Ukraine Talking About War Plan

'Welcome to our school Ukraine translated notices for refugees'

Useful websites and articles:

The British Psychology Society - Supporting children to manage anxiety over war and conflict

The Education Hub - help for teachers and families to talk to pupils about the Russian invasion

Newsround - advice if you're upset by the news

Childline - worries about the world

Refugees, war and conflict | Suffolk County Council 

How to deal with Childhood Trauma - Anna Freud

The UK Trauma Council website has a range of information and resources to help you support refugee and asylum-seeking children who have experienced trauma.

How to deal with Childhood Trauma - Anna Freud Centre

More information can be found on Suffolk County Council | Refugees, war and conflict.

Unaccompanied Asylum Seeking Children (UASC) Group
UASC a safe and empowered space for unaccompanied asylum seeking children and young people aged 14-25 years old, who have been in care, experienced the care system, or are a care leaver, to meet other young people, and help shape change across many services to support them.

• Children and Young People's Mental Health Support Services
• Psychology and Therapeutic Service (PTS) Supporting Return to Education (Secondary)
• Psychology and Therapeutic Service (PTS) Supporting Return to Education Settings (Nursery & Primary)
• Looking after your mental health and wellbeing and that of the children and young people you support
• Emotional Wellbeing Gateway website - search for mental health support services
• The Source website - Mind section and wellbeing directory for young people in Suffolk
• Kooth - Provides free online emotional wellbeing support to 11-25 year olds in Suffolk.
• PACT Parents and Carers Together - Provide free support to parents and carers of children or young people with a mental health issue.
• What Matters Island worksheet
• YoungMinds Charity

Five tips for people with anxiety

• Five tips for children with anxiety (pdf. 388KB)
• Five tips for young people with anxiety (pdf. 510KB)
• Anxiety in children and young people
• The Source anxiety advice for young people 

Watch the this YouTube video 'Keep cool - anxiety', where Young people share and explore how they keep cool when experiencing anxiety. 

Training

• How to manage anxiety on the return to school
• Managing anxiety workshop part 1
• Anxiety workshop part 2 

Anxiety support services

• Kooth
• The Source - anxiety advice for young people in Suffolk 
• YoungMinds website
• Wellbeing service anxiety advice
• Emotional Wellbeing Gateway - anxiety advice for families

Resources

• Wellbeing service low mood advice
• The Source - depression advice for young people
• YoungMinds
• Emotional Wellbeing Gateway - depression information for families

Please find useful information below for School staff and professionals supporting young people

• Self-Harm Toolkit Guidance for school staff supporting children and young people
• The Source website - self-harm advice for young people
• Emotional Wellbeing Gateway - self-harm information for families

For information and advice around helping children and young people sleep better, go to:

• Sleep resources page
• Emotional Wellbeing Gateway sleep advice page for families

Services and organisations that can help with loss and bereavement:

Cruse bereavement care booklets - Child Bereavement Care has a number of booklets for helping children understand about loss on their website. They also have a support line for families (0808 808 1677), and offer training webinars to professionals.

Children and bereavement - This is an advice page is aimed at parents and professionals from the Emotional Wellbeing Gateway website.

Bereavement and young people - This advice page is also from the Emotional Wellbeing Gateway website, and is aimed at helping parents and professionals to support a young person who is experiencing loss and grief.

When someone dies - This is a bereavement advice page aimed at young people from The Source website.

Traumatic bereavement resources 

The UK Trauma Council, and Anna Freud Centre traumatic bereavement resources 

Anna Freud booklet - Working with young children and families who have been bereaved.

Having an ELSA in your school will mean you are able to offer interventions and planned programmes of support to children experiencing emotional, social and behavioural difficulties.

To find out more information visit Emotional Literacy Support Assistant (ELSA) Training and Supervision and Elsanetwork.org

Resources and support to help children and young people cope with exams

• Exam Resilience - Module 1
• Exam Resilience - Module 2 Study Skills & Problem Solving
• Exam Resilience - Module 3  Managing Thoughts and Feelings
• Exam Resilience - Module 4 Putting it all together
• The Source website for Young People - Planning for exams
• Kooth 

These family leaflets were originally co-produced with the 'Suffolk Parent Carer Network' SPCN, a group of parent/carers (who has since been replaced by the Suffolk Parent Carer Forum)

Five Tips for going back to school

• Five Tips for Families, going back to school with Anxiety (pdf. 489KB)
• Five Tips for Families, going back to school with Autism (pdf. 519KB)
• Going back to Primary School (pdf. 516KB)
• Going back to Secondary School (pdf. 569KB)

Also see:

• What to do if your child is anxious about going back to school

Five Tips for people with Autism

• Five Tips for Children with Autism (pdf. 490KB)
• Five Tips for Young People with Autism (pdf. 464KB)

Also see these useful websites:

• Suffolk Local Offer

Five Tips for coping with Self-Harm 

• Five Tips for helping Children that Self-Harm (pdf. 472KB)
• Five Tips for helping Young People that Self-Harm (pdf. 478KB)

Also see:

• Self-harm in Children and Young People 
• The Source for young people self-harm advice

Five Tips for people with Challenging Behaviour

• Behind Challenging Behaviour in Primary School (pdf. 700KB)
• Behind Challenging Behaviour in Secondary School (pdf. 816KB)

Positive Self-Talk Rainbows

• Positive Self-Talk Rainbows for Primary School (pdf. 998KB)
• Positive Self-Talk Rainbows for Secondary School (pdf. 1.5MB)

Body image can affect children's health and wellbeing, social relationships and how they see themselves fit into the wider world. Research shows children are questioning their bodies at a younger and younger age.

Below school staff can find resources to help support their young people to be body positive and raise awareness of unrealistic messages around body perfection that we are subconsciously exposed to everyday in the media and around us.

The Body Happy Org - are a charity organisation that provides lots of useful body happy resources to help families and schools teach about what body image is and how it impacts children and young people.

 Also explore information and advice on Body Image from these other places:

The Source website - body image advice for young people

The Mix for young people

Young Minds Charity for young people

BEAT Online support groups for young people with an eating disorder 

In view of recent events and the impact that Storm Babet has sadly had on some of our schools, staff and pupils in Suffolk, we have put together the following information which we hope you may find helpful.

Flooding Support

Children and Young People-and-Flooding (PDF) - This report was produced as part of a project run with two school communities in 2014 who suffered significant flooding. It helps to highlight some of the consequences flooding has on children and young people. 

Some of the key points from the above report are as follows:

• Children need to have those in school and in the community notice and acknowledge the significant flooding that has happened and how it has impacted so severely on their lives.
• Children often feel isolated as it seems this has happened just to them and not happened to others.
• It is very helpful and important that the children can share their experiences with others who have also been flooded. It can be within their school and between schools.
• Research has found children want to know what is happening. They want to know about flood planning, what is happening when there is flooding and what it going to happen after the flooding.
• Research found children want a voice, they want to be heard and be taken into account.
• Those supporting children who have had their homes flooded must bear in mind the children and young people will have had their everyday practical lives changed significantly. They could be living with other people, have no access to their own things, they may have lost access to computers, printers etc.

The video below was produced as a result of the above research, and is moving to hear the emotional experiences of flooding on young lives and should be seen by teachers and students.

What can schools do to help children impacted by flooding?

It may be helpful to have some sessions with the children who are impacted by the flooding run as follows:

Having the opportunity to talk and share feelings about

• What has happened?
• What is happening now?
• What is going to happen?

Professor Stevan Hobfoll, a leading authority on Stress and Resiliency, looked at what helped following traumatic events across communities worldwide and from this he developed five principles that contribute to creating the best environment for recovery. These are, we feel are very helpful and are widely shared by psychologists: Critical incidents: Five principles to plan for the unplannable

A national effort is being made to support children, young people and families with the recent social unrest, racism, violence and protests that have occurred across the UK.

Below are resources that might be helpful in supporting children and families:

• Sky News' For Your Information show - a short video with advice for young children who may be afraid after the recent stabbings in Southport, by Laverne Antrobus at The Tavistock & Portman NHS Trust.
• The NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children) resource: Talking to children about racism
  
•  Save the children: Talking about distressing current events with kids
• How to speak to children about trauma and tragedy – guidance issued by the British Psychological Society
• UK Trauma council toolkit on childhood trauma, migration and asylum
• National resources on NCL Waiting Room, the leading resource hub for mental health and wellbeing support in North Central London, such as:
  - Coping strategies for anxious times
  - Building resilience leaflet
  - Doing what matters in times of stress
  - Beacon house trauma resources - free resources to support people who have experienced trauma and adversity
  - Hope for the young - national charity offering mentoring and advocacy for young refugees and asylum seekers.
• The Source website - Racism support for young people in Suffolk
• The Source website - Bullying and Hate Crime advice for young people. - includes details for how to report a hate crime.